Our Kenyan Anniversary

This past Thursday Jeff and I celebrated 4 years of marriage. We wanted to be intentional about taking some time to spend together and just enjoy each other’s company. We decided on lunch and some shopping, since we don’t go out after dark here. 

We hired a taxi to take us to the closest town. This is the way that we get around here because we do not have a car or our Kenyan driver’s licenses. We had the driver drop us off at the mall, which consists of a couple of restaurants, a grocery store, and some other shops. 

We had lunch at an asian restaurant and it was very delicious. The place is actually quite nice, but they were in the process of installing windows so it was rather loud. We still had a great time and are used to such inconveniences, this is Africa after all. Oh, and we are pretty sure that the place uses the Fruit of the Loom logo??

After lunch, I went to the choo (restroom) and was so excited to see toilet paper provided that I just had to take a picture. I didn’t even have to pay for the toilet paper! It is not common to have toilet paper provided in the restrooms here, so I usually carry some in my purse.

Our next stop was the grocery store. It is the closest thing to a Walmart here and we can actually find almost anything we could want there (if you are willing to pay much more than you would in the states to get the types of things we are used to eating/using). For example, I was really wanting to get a nice soft towel to use (ours are stiff and rough here from the way we do the laundry), but Jeff didn’t think we should spend $20 on a towel! And I don’t blame him! We had a nice stroll through the store, just taking our time and discovering new items. If you know me well, you know that I love going to Walmart and just taking my time, so it was very enjoyable. 

We then went to the other restaurant that is in the mall for dessert. We splurged on Cookie Sundaes and they were so yummy! We spent time talking and laughing and just relaxing together. Then it was time to call our driver to take us back home. We ended our night with cookies for dinner and a movie. 

So it was not exactly what our past anniversaries in the states have looked like. We didn’t go out to dinner and a movie (because the closest theater is hours away, and dinnertime here is after dark). We didn’t go stay at a fancy hotel, or go to a Braves game and Six Flags (which is what we did for our first three anniversaries), but we had a great day spent together and that is what matters.

We love our life here and wouldn’t trade this experience for anything. We are thankful that God has given us 4 wonderful years of marriage and we look forward to many more! Our life together has certainly been a crazy and amazing journey so far and we are excited to see what the next chapter of our life will hold. Please join us in praying about what God would have us do next, as our time here is drawing closer and closer to an end. Thanks and God Bless!  - Tasch

Don't Let Your Past Dictate Your Future

This past week I have had the privilege to shoot a video for the Correctional Ministry here in Kenya. I had to opportunity to meet and interview not only the chaplains at the prisons, but also the staff and prisoners. God is doing amazing things through this ministry and lives are being transformed. 

I interviewed one prisoner (with the help of one of the chaplains) who had been greatly impacted by the Correctional Ministry in the prison. He told me that  

“When I came to prison, I saw that I had no hope at all. Through the preachings of the chaplains that have visited many times, I have come to know Jesus Christ as my personal Savior.” 

He went on to tell me his testimony which was powerful and then talked about his conviction for the lost.

 “I am very much concerned for the perishing souls. Since I’ve been saved, I have seen the Lord Jesus Christ working in my life…God healed me through the Lord Jesus Christ while in prison. From 2010 til now I have been preaching Jesus Christ because I have seen He has done great things in my life, He has changed me completely, He has healed my insanity, and I have been trying as much as possible to bring many many to Jesus Christ.” 

He concluded by giving a beautiful depiction of Salvation. 

“Because I have been saved, I have that inward feeling that I must reach the rest of those lost souls here…I share my testimony with the inmates and the staff in the aim that I must reach them also that they may come out darkness so they may become children of God.”

Prisons are not the happiest and brightest places, but on that day, when this man told his testimony and talked about his conviction, the light of God illuminated the prison compound. Just because someone may have a rough past, doesn't mean that God cant use them. Think about it.  Moses was a murderer, Noah was a drunk, and Paul (Saul) was a persecutor of Christians. Your past may be rough, but through the power of the cross, your future is bright through the power and blood of Jesus Christ. 

A Kenyan 4th of July

The other day was the 4th of July. I enjoyed seeing everyone back home all dressed in the red,

white, and blue. I enjoyed seeing the pictures of fireworks and the lake and the cookouts. We

did have a cookout of our own with our Baby Centre family, the missionaries and Kenyan staff

here, but it didn’t quite feel like the 4th of July without being in America. We did have a lovely

time together and some really great food. However, the thing I will remember about this 4th of

July really has nothing to do with Independence Day.

Friday, I said goodbye to a very special little boy who went home to be with his forever family. It

is always a beautiful experience to witness the adoption ceremonies here, but yesterday’s was

bittersweet. Here at the Baby Centre, it is customary for each of our babies to have a temporary

“mother” and “father” until their adoptive parent(s) come for them. The moms and dads are

sometimes caregivers, staff members, or missionaries. It just means that those people have a

little extra love for and attachment to that particular baby or babies. These people say a little

something at the adoption ceremony and “hand off” the child to the parent(s). Well, just weeks

after we arrived here, the caregivers started calling me mama to a precious little boy named

Philip. Friday I was able to witness and be a part of the joining together of his forever family.

As I watched Philip bonding with his parents all morning, I could not help but feel happy and

sad. So extremely happy that God had answered my prayers and brought him parents, but sad

that I would no longer get to see him and play with him each day. I tried to hold it together during

the ceremony, but as his parents were speaking about how happy they were to make him their

son, the tears began to flow. It was a beautiful moment. We always sing songs and the Baby

Centre “parents” will hold the child and then hand the child to their new parents, their forever

parents. When they placed Philip in my arms, I had to smile for him as I saw the huge smile on

his face. I wondered if he understood any of what was going on. Did he realize that his life was

completely changing? He now had a family and an exciting chapter of his life was beginning. I

cherished those last moments with him and gladly handed him to his smiling mommy and

daddy. His father looked at me and said thank you, and I knew what he meant by those two little

words. Thank you for loving my son until I could. Thank you for holding him and playing with him

until I could. Thank you for helping to take such good care of him. I knew that is what he meant.

I said thank you back and I hope that he knew that I was saying, Thank you for choosing to love

this child as your own. Thank you for coming for him. Thank you for giving him the family he

deserves. Then his father looked me in the eyes and said, “He is in good hands” as his mother

said, “We will love him very much.” And I knew they meant it. The three of them made a perfect

little family and you could tell how much they already loved each other.

When the ceremony was over, April (a missionary who has been here a while) looked at me and

said “It doesn’t get any easier.” This work God has called us to do here is not easy. Saying

goodbye to these children is hard. The caregivers, the staff, and the missionaries here are often

the first people to truly love these precious babies. It would be so much easier to not fall in love

with them, to keep your distance. But they deserve to be loved, God has called us to love them,

and I will choose to love them until God sends them a family to love them. So, I will endure the

heartache as they drive away with their forever families. Yes, it is sad not knowing if you will

ever see them again, but as I caught a glimpse of Philip’s smiling face through the car window

as he drove away to his new home, I could not help but smile too, knowing that everything we

are doing here at the Baby Centre is worth it. All of the hard work is to help join these families

together and to give God all of the glory for what He is doing in this place. 

I hope you all have a wonderful 4th of July holiday. This was one that I will never forget. !

Much love! Tascha

Hands of Love

“In His hands that bring us life, in His hands we come alive. In His hands, He's holding us!”

In Crowder’s “Hands of Love” we are reassured that the hands that hung the stars, the hands that bore the scars are the same hands that bring us life and these hands are holding us! The past few months Tascha and I have been immersed in orphan ministry. We have been serving at the Africa Gospel Church Baby Centre where the kids are our number one priority. The Baby Centre is not an orphanage or a children's home, but rather a rescue centre for orphaned and abandoned babies. The goal is to be the hands of Christ to these babies until they are adopted into forever families. Tascha has been spending a ton of time in the three wings working with the kids and loving them unconditionally. My ministry here at the Baby Centre has been working on the new AGC Baby Centre website and doing media. I also spend some time with the kids. For more information about the Baby Centre and to meet the kiddos here, visit our new website at www.agcbabycenter.org 

This past week, Tascha and I had the privilege of serving with the Least of These ministry (www.wgm.org/leastofthese). I had been asked to do a video for the ministry showing what they do and how you can get involved with it. This is an amazing ministry and Tascha and I are so blessed to have been able to be a part of it. I wont say too much about the ministry and let Robyn, Mwali and Anthony tell you about the Least of These in the video below. 

The Least of These Ministry 2014 from Jeff and Tascha Fyke on Vimeo.

No eye has seen, no ear has heard the depths of the love God has for us all. Our God is great and mighty and doesn't start caring for us when we are grown. In Matthew 19:14 it says Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.”

These beautiful children, made in the image of God, are precious. God loves them, and has entrusted those at the AGC Baby Centre, the Least of These and many other organizations with their care. It is not a light responsibility and takes all that we have, but these little ones are worth our lives and more. They are the face of Christ and all we do for these, the least of these, we have done for Christ (Matt. 25:40). 

So I encourage you, pray for these ministries and get involved! You don’t have to physically be here in Kenya to touch the lives of these kids

Cornerstone

As many of you know, I love music, photography and videography. What many of you may not know is that in middle school and high school, I painted a lot with oils and also did quite a bit of chalk and oil pastel drawings. I love art and creating things. Whether it is depicting my rendition of something already in existence, or creating something totally original, I love spending time drawing, painting, taking pictures and shooting video. 

Spending hours editing video is not done purely for my own satisfaction, butI to convey a message. I feel God has gifted me in such a way that I can capture a story through my camera lens and depict it in such a way that people can connect with it when they see it. I take pride in my work, not that I am glorified, but that Christ alone is glorified. It is hard and tedious work, but I love it and it is what God has called me to do. 

The story of God begins with Him hard at work. He is the Author; the Creator; the Architect and the Builder. When finished, He rests to admire His work. God enjoys His work. This similar enjoyment we experience in both what we create and in the creating itself, is surely an echo of the image of God in us.

We want other people to enjoy that which we have enjoyed creating. We start our work with the end point in mind, spurring us on to completion.

Jesus is the foundation of our faith. He is the centerpiece of God’s story. He is the climactic depiction of the love of God, the One the whole story is pointing towards. He is also the starting point and the reference by which the rest of the story is written. Jesus is the cornerstone. I see this written on many buildings here in Kenya, including this one here at the Baby Centre. Jesus is recognized and declared as the Cornerstone. 

Just as the cornerstone was the first stone that was laid; the stone to which all the other stones are set and find their reference; so Jesus is the cornerstone for our lives. He is the centerpiece of our hope and the compass for all of our endeavors.

Imagine the enjoyment God takes as His story unfolds, as we are built brick by brick into His Church, fixed firmly on Jesus Christ Himself. What confidence we can take in building our lives on the very same foundation that God Himself has chosen for what He is building.

"Christ alone, Cornerstone. Weak made strong, in the Savior's love. Through the storm, He is Lord, Lord of All!" These lyrics from Hillsong Live's "Cornerstone" are powerful and ever so true! I have loved this song since I first heard it. By singing that Christ alone is our cornerstone, we are declaring that Jesus is the firmest of foundations. Jesus is the reference point for our worship and indeed for all that we have and all that we are. He is the One who holds all things together. Jesus Christ, my Cornerstone, is the One and only one I worship. I do that through the things I say, the way I act in public and in private, through my camera lens and through the things I say. Christ alone, Cornerstone. Firm Foundation, Savior and Lord, forever and ever. 

“So now you Gentiles are no longer strangers and foreigners. You are citizens along with all of God's holy people. You are members of God's family. Together, we are His House, built on the foundation of the apostles and the prophets. And the cornerstone is Christ Jesus Himself." 

Ephesians 2:20 (NLT)

Deviating From the Plan

Most of us make plans of some sort. Some have plans for the day and week, while others have plans for the month, year and the rest of our lives. We talk about our plans, get excited for them and can’t wait to be a part of them. When Tascha and I were preparing to come to Kenya, we planned what we were going do do (as much as we could) and we talked about it with everyone. We talked about how I would be doing media and youth ministry and how Tascha would be doing orphan ministry. But, now that we have been here for a month, we realize that where we are currently, orphan ministry and youth ministry are not our main focuses.

Here in Kericho, my main ministry has been guitar! I am borrowing a guitar from a fellow missionary just for my own enjoyment and personal worship to God. However, God has presented an opportunity for me to teach guitar to the students and staff here at Kenya Highlands Evangelical University. There are around 20 students and 3 staff who are taking lessons. I have classes on Tuesdays and Thursdays after 4pm tea. We gather in the Chapel and split up into groups and learn songs. If there are chords they do not know in the song, then we learn them! My goal is to have the students leading worship using guitar in chapel by April.

 

These lessons are more than learning to play guitar. By these students and staff learning, they are being equipped to teach others guitar. But more than that, they have a portable instrument (tool) to lead worship anywhere. Teaching guitar to new believers is a form of discipleship, ingraining in them what it means to worship God, not only with our voice and a guitar, but with our lives.

 

For Tascha, her main ministry here in Kericho has been at Immanuel AGC, assisting with Children’s ministry. Most Wednesdays we are at the church and she and Lily (the Children’s Pastor) are coming up with ideas for the nine Sunday School lessons for that Sunday. In Sunday School, there are around 500 kids from Kindergarden to 8th grade. Not only does Tascha help plan each lesson, but also comes up with crafts for the kids to do and then prepares the crafts. She is really good at it and the kids love the crafts!

 

We can have a plan for what we want to do or what we think we are going to do. We can pray about it and doors may open or close. For us right now, we are ministering in ways we didn’t really think about because we were open and let God lead. This morning I was reading in Psalm 37 and verses 5-6 really stuck out:

“Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him, and He will act, making your righteousness shine like the dawn, your justice like the noonday.”

In our everyday lives, committing each day to God for His glory and His use. Trust in Him and He will show up! It might not be in a huge glamorous way, but many times, if not most times, He shows up in the small, everyday things. 

An Unexpected Journey

I have a Type B personality. I like to help people, Im flexible, and I don’t live a very structured life. Tascha, on the other hand, has a Type AB personality. She is organized, has a plan (with a few back ups), and is very much a perfectionist. However, she also has a servants heart and thinks of others over herself. During our new missionary orientation last week, we learned this about ourselves and it was great preparation for the week ahead. 

Waterfall at Tenwek

Our original plan was to attend orientation on Friday and then head back to Kericho. Well, when the orientation was over Saturday, Jim and Alice invited us back to their house in Nakuru so we could use their fast internet to get our phones unlocked and restored. This was such a blessing because we had been trying for weeks to get them unlocked, but didn't have good enough internet. Before we left for Nakuru, Mike Davis (new missionary doc and fellow Tennessean) invited Tascha and I to the Tenwek Super Bowl party Monday night. Since the game was actually Monday morning at 2am Kenya time, they were recording it and watching it that evening. We were very excited and Alice helped us work out transportation back to Tenwek for the party. 

When we arrived in Nakuru, we met the Hages (Marvin and Miriam) who were also staying with Jim and Alice. They were leaving the next morning for Tenwek and were the ones who agreed to take us! So, the next morning, we went to church at Lakeview AGC and after a quick stop at Nakumatt and lunch at Java House, we were off to Tenwek!

Newborn in the nursery

Upon arriving at Mike and Katie’s home at Tenwek, we put our things in the guest bedroom and had dinner. It was very nice to be in the company of fellow Tennesseans! We played a little guitar and then went to bed. Monday, Tascha and I went to the nursery where all the newborns are. We didn't hold any, but it was really cool seeing the moms interact with their newborns. That night we went to the Super Bowl party. As you already know, there wasn't much of a game, but it was still fun watching it. With about 9 minutes to go in the 4th quarter, I somehow moved the wrong way and turned the power off. We quickly fixed it, but I was charged with a “delay of game” penalty. 

Tuesday we had lunch with Paul and Ashleigh Espy and their family. It was great getting to know them and meet their kids (who were some of the ones we had Mt. Hope Bible Camp campers write letters to last summer). After lunch, Ashleigh told us that there was a need for a preschool teacher for the MKs Wednesday and Thursday because the current teacher was going to Nairobi for a few days. We talked it over and agreed to stay. So, we let the Davis’ know our change of plans and they were happy to accommodate us a few extra days (gotta love that good ‘ol Southern hospitality!) 

Bible Quizzing

Since we stayed, we had the opportunity to visit the Umoja Children’s Home, about 15 minutes from Tenwek. What a blessing it was to be able to go and unleash all kinds of love and attention on these kids! The youngest was around 4 and the oldest was in Form 4 (12th grade) because they keep the kids there until university. In all, there were around 60 kids that stayed at Umoja. While we were there, we got to see some Bible quizzing practice and we were sung to right before we left. I would say that spending an hour with those kids was the highlight of our week!

     

Wednesday and Thursday, Tascha taught preschool. Thursday I went and played guitar for the 7 preschoolers and we had a blast!

Tascha teaching the 7 preschoolers

Later in the afternoon, we got a ride and came back to Kericho…just in time for guitar lessons! The students and I worked on playing “Majesty” and “Blessed Be Your Name.” These students are so smart and passionate about playing! It is an honor for me to be able to help them in their ministries. 

So originally, we were going to return to Kericho on February 1. However, God had other plans and had we not been open to other possibilities, we would have missed out on so much! In my morning devotions, I have been reminded time and time again to be open and present. If we keep our mind so focused on what we think we are here to do, we miss out on who we are here for, that is, Christ. Paul was devoted to the person of Christ, not a religion. By our openness and devotion to the person of Christ this past week, we have had the opportunity to dwell in His presence. Over the past week we have been mentored, encouraged and blessed by the people and ministries in and surrounding Tenwek. It was just what we needed!